Beyond the Crush: Love or Limerence?
What is Limerence? Is it what you experienced with your partner the last time, or was it love?
What is Limerence? Is it what you experienced with your partner the last time, or was it love?
Can you believe that incredibly, six million Koreans or almost 10% of the Korean population trace their ancestry to an Indian Princess who is said to have travelled to Korea in search of her groom? Yes, it is true.
Normal People takes a jibe at the core problem that exists in a millennial relationship i.e. communication or mostly the lack of it. Connell and Marianne constantly find themselves thrown to the bank after riding the wave of miscommunication.
And the woman should be an “ideal wife” material to get accepted by the man, his family, his relatives, his friends, his neighborhood, and his community. Unlike the past, these may not be evident, but it is still present in those subtle forms where the girl is expected to behave according to the in-laws and the prescriptions of the society.
1. In the ingenious Malayalam movie, Kilukam, there is a dialogue that Mohanlal delivers, which is way too delicious. “Aval paranju…goodbye ennu paranju. Valare aduthupoyavarkum bandhathinte aazham nokaade evidevechum eppozhum kaikondu ingane oru goshti kanichu yaatra chodikanula oru vaakaanalo, goodbye…” Translation (the best I could do, but it is so pure in Malayalam): “She told…